Showing posts with label moving abroad. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moving abroad. Show all posts

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Bee's 3 Step Guide to Going Abroad: LIVE!


Step 3---You made it! And so...

First thing’s first. There is a good ol' saying from Sierra Leone, that the people always tell the JCs ( a term for newly arrived visitors, especially those Sierra Leone natives living abroad). They say "Nah for put u rights nah u pocket." In translation, put your rights in your pocket. In translation again, forget about all them rights and rules and essentially all the order that you know to exist in the western world. It’s a serious thing, though, we laugh at it. But it is one thing I recommend for travelers. It speaks to the ability to adapt to your local environment. This will help you stay calm and not become frustrated in certain situations. Take it easy, take the country for what it is, try hard not to compare it to what you know and you will be able to get the best experience out of it. Do I like brushing my buttocks against passengers as I squeeze to through the cramped aisles to find a seat? No. Do I look forward enduring the odor of someone’s long day of hard work? Um, not exactly. But do I like paying only .25 cents to get somewhere?  Um, yes. $3.00 to the beach. Um, yes. So I take it for what it is and sacrifice. Learn how to do this and you are half way to having a blast! And truly delving into what the country has to offer.


-Check into a hostel, couch-surf, or stay with a friend in town. Some people look for places to live before hand. I would recommend crashing somewhere until you are hired or have established an area that you want to be in. You should get a feel for the country and decide where you could see yourself living. I stayed at a nice hostel in the older section of Panama City upon arrival. And I am actually planning to move back there in a few weeks.

-Once you arrive, ask where you can get a small/cheap cell phone with a local number. This should be done almost immediately.

-Once you get yourself a number, add your new local number to your cover letter and resume and then re-send your cover letter/resume to your list of school contacts. Watch the magic happen!

-Ask about ways to get around and start checking out the locations of these language schools. Get some copies of your package printed and then hand deliver them to schools/businesses. This shows that you are serious and the reality is that down here and in other parts of the world it is highly likely that you will not get a response via email. I won’t even begin to go in to the many reasons as to why non-response should be expected. #aintnobodygottimeforthat

-Be patient. Again. And Again.

-Go out. Meet people. Network. Tell them what you are doing. Indulge the people who will spend minutes and minutes talking to you you about how they are investing in some weird project and even the people who say they have been traveling for 7 months and are just passing through. Just indulge them. You might learn a thing or to, or find someone with whom you share similar interested. And besides, you never know what connects they might have.

-Don't be usin’ all your money juuuuuust yet. (Yes, I said it like that. It was appropriate)

-Make a list of things/experiences you want to have while in country.

Deep Ish:
Make a list of what you didn’t come here to do. And every time you find yourself trippin' look back at that list.

For me, I didn’t come to panama to work excessively, to be stressed, to have that day-to-day stress of office job-ness and I didn’t come here to drive. I came here to walk as much as I could and be driven. I also came here to write more, live more, and self-reflect about how to build my future.

And so far, I have done those things. I’ll be honest and say that I do get stressed, but it’s a different kind of stressed than when I was in the States. I have had a lot of time to do just those things. However, I am almost ready for what’s next. Stay tuned.

But in the mean time, start your own journey.

Get back to Y.O.U. (Your Own Unfulfilled dreams)
Just G.O (Get Out!)

And

LIVE!

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Bee's 3 Step Guide to Going Abroad: Ready, Set, G.O.! (Get Out!)


STEP 2: The Step with a Whole Lotta Steps.

If you are just joining the ride, please take off your seatbelt and read Step 1. It’s one of the few times, I will ask you to take off your seatbelt! But I need you to get this part from the beginning. 

Ready?

So last post, I detailed the portion of Getting Back to Y.O.U.---Your Own Unfilled promises. That’s right, we all have them. Pull out your list now. We’ll wait.

Mine of course was always wanting to just teach abroad, even if only for a few months or a year.  I put things in place and started taking the TEFL course.

During the course, I started my research. I completed my practicum as it was a requirement for the course. I tutored students at the Literacy Council of Prince George’s County. I would spend some days tutoring a guy in a reading class and other days observing the English as a Second Language class. I enjoyed both experiences. Tutoring one student in a reading class really tested my patience; I had to think about new ways to get him to learn. That experience in itself was a blessing because READING is something we take for granted. If you are following this blog, you are blessed. Education = Freedom, indeed. It was then that I truly learned the depth and importance of that phrase. Whew, Jesus, Lord. Thank you. I was also able to take notes and pick up things that I would want to use in my classroom when I went abroad. 

Note: The guy I was tutoring had started a few months ago at the literacy council. He was in his 60s and could not read the alphabet when he first started. When I first started working with him he still had a way to go, but he was writing at least one paragraph a day in a journal. He liked to write about why people did the things they did in the world. His determination to learn killed any excuse I ever gave myself.

SACRIFICE is a key word. I would get off work from my night job. Then rest a bit before going to practicum, then go to my afternoon job after. Sometimes I was late, but I had explained to my boss what I was doing. I was missing money, but it was for a greater cause---my freedom!

*Greatest Lesson in Step 2*: Do not be afraid to make sacrifices. They might sting, but if the outcome of your sacrifice is greater and for longevity, don’t be afraid to make it. Do it!

Before Departure.  These are the steps that I took; you will tweak these to fit your needs and destination :) But I think these steps are applicable to many Latin American destinations and other countries.

1. Complete course including practicum. Tie up all loose ends when it comes to acquiring your certification. I was nervous that somebody would call and say “Ummmm, ONE more thing.” Lol, kinda like graduation. You get it.

2. Google anything and everything about your intended destination. Before bed. While you wait at the doctor’s office. At work. Lol. And create a folder in your email called “_______________ Resources” I know y’all thought I was crazy just uppin’ and movin,’ but Lord knows I researched the hell outta Panama. Anything that said Panama, I read it---AND ANYTIME OF THE DAY. I developed a folder in my email box called Panama resources. I found travel blogs, people blogs, reviews, anything and everything on what and how to do stuff in Panama. If I was going to do this, I was going to know HOW to do it and that I COULD do it. I had so many resources that by the time an advisor emailed me with what she thought would be good resources for me, I had already seen all of them and ruled some out. Gotta do your own work.


3. Since I wanted to teach, I needed to know where I could do this. Thus, I began looking up schools. You know what that meant. Google search “English schools in Panama” and every other possible combination of those words to see what the wonderful Google Gods would yield for results, lol. Unfortunately for me, Panama’s TEFL market/experience wa basically non-existent on file. Not many people set out to come teach English in Panama, unlike more popular teaching destinations like Thailand, Costa Rica, South Korea, China, etc. so it was a bit difficult and even frustrating at times. But, I stuck with it. I tried a second technique, which was finding different words for school and not typing English language schools specifically. I tried ‘schools in panama’ and let it give me as many as schools as possible. Anything I yielded that seemed a bit legit, I added it to a list. Eventually I took all of my results and compiled a list of schools, phone numbers, email addresses, fax numbers, and location when available. I would leave this list alone and then come back after a new creative Google word search got me a new school or something. Tricks---are not just for kids :) Also, you want to know the peak hiring seasons for the work you are trying to do.

4. Now, you are like great, I have a list I can send out my resumes/cover letters to ear employers. No, relax. Not just yet. My institute advised me to create a packet that most language schools like to see when hiring teachers from overseas. I would recommend, based on how I was recommended, a beautifully written cover letter, a solid resume with related teaching/training experience, a copy of your TEFL certificate and two recommendations from employers that love you J I have my picture on my resume which they say is recommended for international teaching positions, but I think its to see your race…just saying. Just get these things together. Don’t send just yet.

5. Then, you want to develop an email addressing potential schools. I created one in Spanish since I was applying to schools in a Spanish-speaking country. But, if you are applying for a job in Thailand, maybe you don’t know how to write Thai. In that case, English would suffice, lol. Once you have a nice formal email introducing yourself, attach your resume and cover letter to the email and send it out. I did a blind copy to many schools, about once every 1.5 weeks. Do not send all of the information mentioned in step 4, unless they request it.

6. Wait for responses. Only got 1. But that was normal. A lot of schools in Latin America won’t hire you before arrival. This step means, even with all of the other steps, don’t be discouraged if you don’t hear back. You just gotta make the move.

7. Tell all your friends and family that you are making a move and that you have done research. Tell them about other people that have done this same thing (like me). Show them this blog. Show them other blogs. Tell them that dream chasin’ and travelling the world is in style and that they too should get with it! Lol.

8. Purchase your plane ticket for the time you think that will be best to make your move based on peak hiring seasons for your intended job and personal matters.

9. Do Step 7 again. Cuz some people won’t believe you.

10. Tie up loose ends. Figure out how you will pay your bills while away. Designate a person to be responsible for different things. Defer your loans, if you can. Handle any medical stuff. Tell your doctor that you are going abroad and want to make sure that you can connect with them for questions. Lord knows, I abuse the hell out of my doctor’s office with questions. And my cousin that is a PA of course gets bombarded with questions. Check with your insurance provider to see what they cover. Cancel stuff. Stop this. Stop that. Prepare.

11.  Create a packing list of things you will need that you cannot find abroad. In my experience, I will always leave the States with a planner. I will not even begin to tell you my finding a cute planner in August in Panama ordeal. The teachers at my school knew my struggle, lol. Luckily, this year, I found a wonderful Paulo Coelho planner. Yes, I am a believer.

12. Purchase International travel insurance.

13. Register with the U.S. Embassy if you are an American Citizen.

14. Request certain stuff from your closest friends and family members and tell them to come to your house because you are leaving. People will pretty much get you anything. Lol. I got cards, money, food, a magic jack, body sprays, you name it, I was claiming it. The greatest gift though, was the support of my mother and father. Have a cute little potluck in your mom’s backyard with your closest friends and just laugh and enjoy them. By the time you get back, some will be married, moms, dads, CPAs, grad students, diplomats, etc. basically, prepare yourself for a journey and have them prepare for your growth on this journey.

15. Believe in yourself. This is what will take you where you are supposed to be. This is how people will believe in you as well. They will look at you and say, “Wow, she did it!”